Saturday, March 15, 2014
Saturday, March 1, 2014
Going Home
I remember well that
Christmas Eve Sunday so many years ago.
We lived just down the road from that old country church that we loved
so well. As Preacher headed out the door
to make that long haul across the mountain over into Vest, where little ones
would be watching for that old yellow bus to stop out front. I stood at the window and watch as he climbed
on board and started the engine. Then he
climbed out and with the long handled window scraper, he cleared the
windshields snowy cover and then with his bare hands, wiped the snow from the side
mirrors, before climbing aboard, and putting the bus in gear. I stood there every Sunday until the bus
disappeared out of sight. Often one of
our 3 boys would go with their preacher daddy on the long drive Up Ogden, over
the mountain, through Vest, and then all the way around until he came out of
Possum Trot, through Hindman, and back up Big Branch where the Little country
church was filling up, and awaiting their pastor’s arrival.
It was December 24th.
Christmas Eve Sunday and so much planning and preparation had been made. The children would be singing, some of them
saying parts, Special recognition to those who helped faithfully. I remember that this particular year, Hessie
and Jerry Pierce would both be given special mention, and given small gifts of
appreciation for their service. There
would be sweet treats for every boy and girl, and some gifts for them too. It
was a wonderful time of celebrating Christ coming to earth. We even had a birthday cake with candles as
we sang Happy Birthday to Jesus. It was
snowing softly, but the roads were still passible.
Finally, Sunday
morning was over, again the bus, and vans were loaded and the voices of happy
children could be heard singing and laughing as they head home.
I hurried to our
house, excited and so very thankful for the already cooked dinner Martha
Cornett had prepared and given us for Sunday dinner that day. Her meals were
such a treat. Fried chicken, mashed
potatoes, green beans, slaw, biscuits, and a warm from the oven cobbler filled
the basket. As I peeked into the basket of goodies, all three of our boys
gathered around to get that first glimpse of the meal that they knew would be
delicious. Rewrapping the meal and
placing the kitchen towel over the basket to hold in the warmth, I scurried off
the pack…we were going home for Christmas.
I pulled out the 3 old suitcases we owned, and opened them wide across
the living room floor. Then told each of the boys to go get 5 pair of socks, enough
underwear for the week, and their PJ’s. One suitcase always held all the
bedtime clothes. Then back up to get
their shoes, and a pair of boots, gloves, and their hang up clothes. I would look over each item, most were badly
worn, but I’d made certain all was clean and ready for this once a year trip to
grandma and Grandpa’s house.
Finally preacher was
back, and I want to the kitchen to put the Sunday meal on the table. I had things ready when my husband walked
into the kitchen. The food was wonderful,
and the conversation was peppered with laughter as we talked about the
Christmas service that morning, and made final plans for the long, all night
drive north to be with family. Oh how
light our hearts were that afternoon.
That last suitcase was
finally closed just in time for all of us to head back to church for the
Christmas Eve service. We had decorated the
church with candles in each window, a wreath on the front door, and in the
center of the room the old floor furnace was glowing red as it heated the
room. It was a wonderful evening, and
everyone seemed to burst with joy as they headed back to their homes that
evening. It was indeed a special night.
In just a few hours, it would be Christmas.
Preacher and I closed
up the building, making sure everything was in order. Our boys put the song
books back in the racks. We said goodbye
to our precious church family and drove the short distance back to our
house. Bathroom visits were made,
pillows, blankets, handed out, the suitcases in the trunk, and we were on our
way. For several hours, the boys all sat
up…three little heads all looking over the front seat…. talking about pumpkin
pie, turkey, and grand mom’s cookies. Six
eyes beams into the night as they remembered past Christmas’s…the folding table
up-stairs loaded down with presents. The Beautiful Christmas tree that they
knew would we shining brightly no matter what time we arrived and a warm
welcome awaited all of us. I must admit
my heart was doing flip-flops as well.
It was a 13-hour
drive. Preacher was tired. Some times I would relieve him for an hour or
two, so he could sleep. He had been up
since before daylight on Sunday morning, and now it was beginning to grow light
again…it was Christmas and we were all singing.
I remember the song…”Over the river and through the woods, to
Grandmothers house we go, the Horse knows the way to carry the sleigh over the white
and drifted snow. Then we’d get to the
part about the pumpkin pies and the children were literally screaming out the words.
Even now my heart
seems to squeeze as I remember all the delicious treats that my children knew
awaited them. We weren’t able to provide
all the goodies and extra special treats that they knew would be found at
Grandma’s house.
It was nearly 9am when
we pulled up in front of the house. I
would lean forward for that first glimpse of the house, that first moment when
I’d see mom and dad standing there, looking out the window for their first
sight of our car pulling up. We had
arrived! The back doors of the car were thrown open, and three boys spilled
out, heading for the house. The front door
opened and I saw mom and dad bending down, gathering their grandchildren in
their arms. I stood back, my eyes awash
with tears, as I saw mom looking, waiting.
Her arms were open for me.
Dad wrestled and
played with his grandchildren, while mom hurriedly tied her apron around her
waist and soon the house smelled like bacon, sausage gravy and buttermilk
biscuits. A jar of her homemade
blackberry jam was opened and very soon we were gathered around the kitchen
table, in the house I grew up in…and I was home.
The years have passed
and this year, I’m back in the states, But this year mom is much older, more
feeble, her hands tremble, her walk is slow, her strength almost non-existant. Breakfast is now my job. Now those long ago
Christmas happen only in my memory. But still where mom is, I feel that
welcoming pull of Home.
And now, just days
ago, mom moved her address. Dad had gone
on ahead 15 years before, and finally, once again, they are united…their
address: Mansion over the Hill Top, Golden
Avenue, Glory Land. I look forward with
much anticipation to one day going home…my real home.
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